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- 1 (2021-05-26 (水) 02:04:47)

I would take the violent person over the liar as a parent. Violence often comes from external forces but a liar is from within. One time violence vs always lying?

Wow. I read this post after a day where my 14 year old boy tells me: ” I love my mom but I do not like her”. He does not trust or respect her. He then progressed to tell me how everyone is messed up in some way, including himself. Fourteen years old!

I agree with you that unless there is a needle sticking out of an arm or their is physical abuse, both parents should be part of the child’s life.

What is a “fit” parent?

I hope someone gets the “what is a fit parent?” right and shares. We all have our issues, strengths and weaknesses. If the child trusts and respects you then you are fit. The kid has to view you as a legitimate parent. They must see you as someone who is looking out for them.

Should a parent lose part or full custody over infidelity?

No! I think the unfaithful parent should have more parenting duties and responsibilities. What a conflict between faithful to the spouse and faithful to the family as a parent. Tough question. Depends on how bad the family and the marital relationship.

Do we tolerate abuse from women differently than from men?

I think abuse from men is physical and short lived but abuse from an abusive woman towards a man is psychological, chronic, and often changes the man permanently. I have seen this happen. Physical abuse is easy and does not require imagination or premeditation. Men are simple.

And, would Elin’s shade of blond look good on me?

If you have a beautiful face, keep the dark hair. Why have something bright and shiny next to beauty? Blond hair is a distraction. Look em in the eye.